Monday, May 04, 2015

Our Little Attitude Challenge

In my intro post, I asked the question "where has all the beauty gone"? Maybe a better question would have been to ask "where have our attitudes, our morals and our character gone"? In our world, so much pressure exists around us to have beautiful homes, nice clothing, to never age and to always look "sexy". However, this is not what God calls us to do or be.

Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 1 Peter 3:3-4

Painting by: Emile Vernon

He's telling us that it's not what is on the outside that counts, but what is on the inside. It begins with our heart, our mind, our attitude. 

As I thought about this post, I read back through many journals I've kept over the years and various Bible studies that I've done and compiled a list of what a Godly woman is called to be. The list is long, but what jumps out to me is how contradictory it is to what society tells us is okay.

God calls us to have pure heart and mind, to be self controlled, discreet, kind, merciful, loving, helpful, respectful (especially to our husbands), trustworthy, reverent, wise, charitable, careful in our choices, gentle, thoughtful, modest, and full of distinction. How different from what we see on television, in movies and in magazines now! 

What amazes me though, is that if you read books on etiquette or older novels, this list is how they judge a lady. God is calling us to be noblewomen! Ladies are not born, they need not have wealth, they are made and judged by their actions. How similar this is to Matthew 7:16:

Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles?

Now that we know what God wants for us in our attitudes, how do we achieve this? First, it's about being purposeful. He does not expect us to be perfect:

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 2 Corinthians 12:9

Always remember, we all make mistakes. It's right in the Bible as well (Romans 3:23) what is important is to cry out to God to help us get back on track.

Purposeful actions that we can take:
Keeps a list of the attitude God calls us to have. Keeping Bible verses with this list can also be powerful.
Keep a journal to keep you accountable, better yet, have an accountability buddy!
Do a Bible study on Godly womanhood (we're doing one on this blog)
and most importantly

Keeping what we are seeking on the forefront of our minds daily is an important part of success. Deuteronomy 11:18 tells us

Therefore shall ye lay up these my words in your heart and in your soul, and bind them for a sign upon your hand, that they may be as frontlets between your eyes.

(Found on a favorite blog: Strangers and Pilgrims on Earth)

We cannot change on our own, we need the grace of God. Every day we need to call to him, ask him to guide us, to help us through the tough times. To give us patience and kind words when our children are being temperamental. To give us humility when we make mistakes. To be respectful of our husbands when they say no to something we thought was a wonderful idea. God does not promise life will be easy or instant change, he does, however, promise to always be there for us. 

This week, make an effort to carve out a little time to spend with God on your own. Take some time to develop a deeper relationship with him. Talk with him about what he says a Godly woman is and how that applies to your life. We are all in different places and it's important to remember that our paths will not all look the same. Talk with him, take notes on these things and what you are feeling lead to be. Keep these in front of you and make an effort each day to delve a little bit deeper into your calling.

Blessings and love,



This post was shared as part of the Art of Homemaking Link Up


  1. I love your blog! I really loved this article as well. I needed to hear this today. God bless you!!

  2. Hello, Very wise words, we all must live by! I am so glad for the guidance of the Holy Spirit in my life! And it is extra special when we have a Godly example in our lives!
    Have a Blessed Mothers Day!

  3. Thank you so much ladies! <3


  4. Good morning Audrey. Thank you for this beautiful biblical encouragement and for sharing it on the Art of Home-Making Mondays. Have a lovely weekend :)